“Generation Like”: a Great Way to See the Danger Behind Likes and Shares

In a world where everything surrounds around social media, the pressure put on kids and teens to get the most likes can be deteriorating their self-esteems. In a documentary published on PBS’s Frontline called “Generation Like”, they show how the pressure on social media users to get likes on their content can change their mood drastically and can result in bad outcomes like, low self-esteem and low communication skills.

What Life was like Before “Likes” and “Shares” were Important:

Children and young adults these days have grown up around social media and computers/technology in general. I remember when I was in sixth grade and the time came to get a phone, my parents were worried that I would be able to figure it out. The phone salesman assured my parents and said, “Don’t worry, she will figure it out quickly and she will be able to help you with yours too.” Sure enough, it took me about a ½ hour to figure out my new phone, a silver Razor flip-phone from Verizon wireless, and I also was able to help and fix my parents phone when they needed.

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The “cool phone” back then. A Verizon Wireless Razr flip-phone.
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As a digital native, this can be good and bad at the same time. Growing up with computers and Internet made life a lot easier. If I had to research something, it took a few seconds for thousands upon thousands of results to pop up in Google. We didn’t have to go to the library like our parents had to, although we still did not only because it was recommended but also because it was nice to have different sources.

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The “new cool things”, an Apple MacBook and iPhone.
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Hannah Fakhrzadeh

Back then, the Razor flip-phones were the “cool” thing, now it is all about apple but that is beside the point. The point is that times are changing fast. When social media platforms started to pop up, they weren’t as popular as they are now. “Likes” weren’t that important back then. Now, it is all about how many “likes” you got on your new profile picture or how many views you have on your YouTube videos.

Generation Like shows how Dangerous “Likes” and “Shares” have become:

The concept of getting “likes” on your content truly is an epidemic. It is apparent that sometimes that’s all any one cares about; how many “likes” they get. Not getting enough likes can two one of two things. Either it lowers the social media user’s self-esteem or it causing them to get rid of the post. The concept of “likes” is used to see if everyone likes you and what you have to share.

“Likes” are becoming dangerously important.
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Hannah Fakhrzadeh

In the movie, Generation Like, it goes through the importance of “likes” and “shares”. Douglas Rushkoff sits down with a group of teens from Montclair, NJ and discusses getting likes on their profile. At one point, the teens are trying to help one of their friends post a proper profile picture that will gain a lot of likes. In the movie, you can hear one of the friends say, “Listen to Genna. She’s a master of Facebook. Come on, we’re trying to get 400 likes!” Rushkoff perfectly describes in the movie what “likes” can do to a person and says, “Likes, follows, friends, retweets— they’re the social currency of this generation, Generation Like. The more likes you have, the better you feel.” He goes on to say, “You get them, you give them, and everyone knows how many you’ve earned. The number is right there for anyone to see.”

The amount of people is right that liked your post is visible for everyone to see. Photo Credit: Hannah Fakhrzadeh
The amount of people is right that liked your post is visible for everyone to see.
Photo Credit:
Hannah Fakhrzadeh

“Likes” and “shares” can be seen as a never-ending game of Telephone; it’s like a domino affect. All it needs is one thing to act or start and then it automatically causes everything else after that to follow. Rushkoff while talking to a social media user, says, “It’s cool because when a kid likes something and that thing likes her back, other kids notice. And then they like her, too.”

It’s the same on YouTube. If someone that is not so popular with views and shares posts a video, they are not going to get as much as they want. Once they film a video with someone popular, or if someone popular is in their video, that almost always expands their audience base.

Kids, teens and young adults think that social media, “likes” and “shares” are cool but they depend too much on them as Generation Like displays. Generation Like, shows how much teens really depend on being accepted through social media with things like “likes” and “shares”. Sometimes they get so caught up with what happens on the computer and how popular they get to their followers that they don’t even realize what is going on around them. It is like they have tunnel vision for just what is on their social media pages.

Douglas Rushkoff narrates
Douglas Rushkoff narrates “Generation Like” showing how important “likes” and “shares” are to social media users.
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After watching Generation Like, the audience should be able to understand the problem of obsessing over social media. The audience will also get to see first-hand, through interviews of students, what social media networks can do if not controlled. They will see that kids these days are focusing on what others think rather than what they think. Generation Like shows how even if someone likes a particular picture of them, if they don’t think that they will get enough likes, then they wont even consider posting and sharing it. Generation Like shows that it is not only an epidemic but it is also a popularity game. It is a game to see who can get the most “likes” or “shares”.

Generation Like is a perfect way to show how eventually once the social media users get too obsessed with this, that is all they will care about. This will result in them having virtual lives but they don’t have in person contact. This becomes a problem when it comes time to socialize with their peers because they wont know what to do because of the fact that they became so used to communicating through the many social media outlets. “Likes” and “shares” truly is part of an epidemic that doesn’t seem to be dying down. I feel that as long as social media is around, the epidemic of “likes” and “shares” will still be around. If you would like to see the movie, Generation Like, for yourself, you can visit the website listed below.

http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/generation-like/

Gabriella Centrella, a 16-year old with a Driven Mind

16-year-old Gabriella Centrella has the mind of an adult. With schoolwork, actual work, sports, extra-curriculars and looking at colleges, she has her plate over filling. Gabriella somehow finds a way to balance it all even excelling and receiving achievements along the way. She has a dream and she is determined to pursue it no matter how full her plate gets.

Gabriella Centrella is a diverse athlete and student. She has participated in multiple sports separately and also at the same time. She has a dream to become a doctor and already has her mind made up and her path paved to lead her in the right direction. Her story is not only a compelling but is an inspiration to all students and really anyone trying to juggle multiple things at once.

How to Make An Effective Study Area

Especially with college students and even students younger, it is important to have an effective study area to ensure that are focusing on what you are doing and what is right in front of you. Follow my six, easy steps to make sure that you have your very own effective study area.

1.     Make sure your area is quiet

Having an area that is quiet is very important. One of the biggest distractions you can have while studying or doing work is to have un-wanted and un-needed noise around you. This means that you should set some time aside where it is designated just for studying and work. During this time, your phone should be silenced, there should not be any TV on near you and you should not have music on unless it is calming music that might help you concentrate.

Having TV on behind you can distract you while you are doing work and studying. photo courtesy of: Hannah Fakhrzadeh
Having TV on behind you can distract you while you are doing work and studying.
Photo courtesy of: Hannah Fakhrzadeh

2.   Make sure there is proper lighting

Having proper lighting is also very important. You want lighting that is not too bright that it blinds you but also not too dark that you can barely see anything. Also, make sure the lighting allows you to properly see what you are doing. You don’t want to be squinting to see what’s on the paper or on the computer.

Having proper lighting will prevent you from squinting to see what you are working on. Photo courtesy of: Hannah Fakhrzadeh
Having proper lighting will prevent you from squinting to see what you are working on.
Photo courtesy of: Hannah Fakhrzadeh

3.      Make sure your study area is clean and clutter free

One of the most important things is to have a clean and clutter free workspace. Wherever you are designating as you study/workspace, whether it be your room or the kitchen table, you want to make sure that there is no clutter around you, which can serve as a distraction. Make sure there are no messy piles of papers that will leave you scrambling to find the paper you need. You want to make sure that you have all of your supplies near you and make sure your supplies are clean. Lastly, make sure that there is no garbage around you.

Having clutter and a mess around you can cause major distractions. Photo courtesy of: Hannah Fakhrzadeh
Having clutter and a mess around you can cause major distractions.
Photo courtesy of: Hannah Fakhrzadeh

4.      Have snacks and drinks near you

While you study, something that can help to make an affective study area is having snacks and drinks nearby. Snacks like nuts and gum can help keep hunger thoughts away while doing your work and studying. Having drinks like juice and water can do the same as snacks while instead keeping the feeling of being thirsty away.

Having snacks and water or juice near by will prevent you from getting up due to hunger and thirst. Photo courtesy of: Hannah Fakhrzadeh
Having snacks and water or juice near by will prevent you from getting up due to hunger and thirst.
Photo courtesy of: Hannah Fakhrzadeh

5.      Have a fish tank near you

One way to keep an affective study and work area is to have a fish tank in your study/work area. It is not known to a lot of people but fish are said to help you concentrate. Watching the swim around in the tank can also be peaceful. Petbloglady.com gives a good explanation as to why fish tanks can help during study or work hours. Click the link to read more about the health benefits of having a fish tank near you.

http://www.petbloglady.com/2014/02/calming-effects-of-aquarium-to-the-mind.html

Having a fish tank can help you stay calm and focused. Photo courtesy of: Hannah Fakhrzadeh
Having a fish tank can help you stay calm and focused.
Photo courtesy of: Hannah Fakhrzadeh

6.      Play with Play-Doh

The last simple and easy way to keep you concentration going while doing homework and studying is to channel your inner child. You can do this by playing with Play-Doh. This doesn’t mean sit there and make Play-Doh animals. This means to just take a chunk in your hand and as you work or study, just squish it in your hand. Doing this can keep your mind focused and not distracted. The imaginationtree.com discusses how playing with Play-Doh as kids and even adults can be calming and soothing. Click the link to read what they said.

http://theimaginationtree.com/2012/06/benefits-of-playing-with-play-dough.html

Playing with Play-Doh in your hand while studying can help keep your focus on what you are doing. Photo courtesy of: Hannah Fakhrzadeh
Playing with Play-Doh in your hand while studying can help keep your focus on what you are doing.
Photo courtesy of: Hannah Fakhrzadeh